Rooney
I need comforting...
Okay. Well, its a REALLY long story,but Ill try and make it short. I need advice. Badly.
So, Im like in love with this guy whos name is Josh.(hes so hot!) Anyways, Iv been told that hes done drugs ,but quit.
Now, some people say that hes using perscription drugs to get high and that hes selling them too. I don't wan't to have to do with anyone that does drugs. One girl (a close friend) said she heard a guy ask him, "Hey, can I get some of that?" and that hes eyes were all red and everything.
Im just heartbroken and crushed and I don't know what to do!!!! We wernt like bf and gf ,but I don't know if I should not talk to him too much (but still be nice). Im just clueless and need help!!!
Why would he do this? One girl told me its because he thinks I don't like him, so hes doing dumb stuff to make himself feel better. I don't know if thats true though and I don't like to give myself that much credit. Iv also heard that alot of his friends are druggies,but there SOOO NICE!
What should I do?
I love him.
~Noelle
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Sorry.
Im so sorry if that sounded rude. Im trult NOT rude. I sware.
Oh, and yeah I dunno. I might not even get to talk to him for efew weeks. Im soo busy!
I barley have time to get on here. I was suppoed to see him tonight,but I can't go. Oh,and DONT get me wrong. I don't usually believe rumors and now that Im thinking about it, alot of ppl tell me crap about him liking other girls and he tells me that there full of bs. But this was a while back.
Oh, well. You seem like a nice person.
~Noelle
No need to be rude...
Yeah, some people's comments were a bit unkind, but you didn't really make it clear that you and he are actually friends. You just kept talking about stuff you'd "heard" from his friends, rather than first hand knowledge. Talk to him about it if you think a) he will consider it to be any of your business, I don't know how good friends you are and b) if you're willing to try and help him quit, but only if HE wants to. Maybe he's happy doing drugs, and he'll have to find out that he can't take illegal drugs without consequences the hard way.
I don't..
Hey, yall didnt really make me feel any better.
a) I WILL NOT DO DRUGS!!!
Oh, and the person who posted 2nd I hope you were talking to the person who told me to do drugs so wed have something in common. If so, I agree with u 100 %.
b) Yes, we ARE friends. But, I don't go to the same school as him. Plus, hes 2 grades ahead of me.
c) Drugs ARE a big deal. You can get arrested. Right?
d) I will try to help him,but Im not going to ask him straight forward if he does drugs. Thats kinda rude. Ill just um talk to him. I guess.
I don't know.
~Noelle
p.s. If anyone has any BETTER advice please share it.
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I think that until you're his friend, whether he does drugs or not isn't really your business. So, either become his friend and find out if the rumours are true, or just leave him alone if the whole rumour is putting you off that much. Although drugs aren't good, I wouldn't give up on someone entirely because of them.
